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Wednesday, May 22, 2013

kinds of relationships; stifling love

We want the kind of relationships that make us happy
there are times when you feel deeply but are unhappy
some amount of unhappiness in life is acceptable
but misery, a relationship that makes you miserable is no good at all
You want the kind of relationship that makes you accomplish things
If your relationship make you dull and uninteresting it is no good
a relationship built on someone else's life is stifling
eventually it kills the lovers and kills the dependent first
building things based on our relationships can be good
but the individual lives should remain despite the joining together
we should want the kind of relationship that makes others happy
our lovers most of all, but those who see it should smile
if your relationship frustrates those you know, it is broken
and yet we often love deepest with an unhappy type of love
especially if we believe that the target of our affection is deserving
but in the end it comes back to whether the relationship is a happy one
for everyone involved, for true love should have mutuality
a relationship where one person is the slave to the other
will eventually hurt both people enslaving one and degrading the other
Selfish love will eventually give way to outside passions
the selfish lover will move on in time and find solace in another
real love never goes away, it only goes below the surface and simmers
will i always love you, find you in the taste of coffee in the morning
the smell of flowers, the beauty of a moment far away from you
will you always be there just below the surface, never quite gone
waiting for some trigger to bring the picture of you
in front of everything else in life, like some allergy of the heart
or will you one day be lost in oblivion, an unwanted peace at last
a love that was not real and not really there after all

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