Death, living right and Zeno Greek Salads in the Einstein Hologram/Non-linear Time Universe 1 of 2

I was at a funeral service today and was impressed by the quality of the person who died.
This one was also very religious.
While I was admiring the quality of the  person's life, the wonderful ideas he had, things he added to the life of his family (date night with his daughter so he'd be closer to her-not a "date" but spending a night just with her was one example) there was a lot of talk of the after life and taking of a soul as well as the addition of one under the middle scriptures (Hebrew (original), Christian (middle), Muslim (extreme))
It is was discomforting only because my mind kept wandering from the scripted religious view to the slightly less comforting, and mathematically governable Projection Theories.  An after-life is entirely consistent with Einstein hologram theory which at least suggests a non-religious approach to religion, a little less so with non-linear time theory which accepts at least the possibility of self determination, however unlikely that might be.
Like all "appearance/illusion" based systems, projection based systems do not make our "concept" of self determination any less important to us, just as sharp objects remain sharp to the projections that fill the universe and this is much more true of non-linear time theory than any of the hologram theories although they are all part of the same 2500 year old Zeno-Greek salad, or Greek salad with Zeno dressing if you were.
Instead, if self determination and an afterlife (both likely part of the same appetizer under EHT) are accepted as part of the theoretical mixed Greek-Physicist Salad then you have the ability to act knowing that no matter how daring, it has been done before.  If all time, space and therefore thought merges in some non-linear time environment, then you have an afterlife merged with all intelligence in our universe which is highly consistent with the less mathematical approach of walking into the kingdom of god (since you can't walk somewhere without dimension or time in which to do it) but at least everyone is together, intellect wise.
With some people I know, that would make it a little too crowded, and you know who you are.
But this is a two part post and this is only one part.